You made it...
Well, she was a Laotian-American girl
Raised on promises
She couldn't help thinkin' that there
Was a little more to life
Somewhere else
After all it was a great big world
With lots of places to run to

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Birthday: DEC 31st  
Location: Kangneung, South Korea
Homestate: Oregon. UofO alum 
Job: Teaching English in Korea
Super Powers: Super delayed reaction time, perceiving the obvious, & hyper-indifference
Watching:
CSI, Gilmore Girls, Cold Case, Lost, Veronica Mars, Arrested Development, Joan of Arcadia, Simpsons, The Daily Show
Fixated on: downloading TV shows, organizing my photos
Want to touch: Old people skin.  Oooohh, so soft!
Currently annoyed with: not taking over the world due to my laziness
Looking forward to: Travelling after leaving Korea


Sing like no one can hear
Dance like no one can see
Love like you've never been hurt
Live like it's heaven on earth




 Let's set it straight - Is the country Laos or Lao?
Here's the answer

This week...
Things that make me happy

  • Flying out to Panama on Monday, Jan 31st!
  • not working all week
  • sleeping in
  • discovering the world of webcams w/ audio

Movies I've seen this month
  • 13 Going On 30
  • 21 Grams
  • Garden State
  • Meet The Fockers
  • The Forgotten
  • Harold and Kumar go to White Castle
  • The Aviator
  • Hotel Rwanda
  • The Notebook
  • The Village



What they're saying about me

"She's a nut! Not too sure how else to describe an "at-first-glance" seemingly quiet girl who dances like a chicken when she thinks no one else is looking, who likes to pass off her "made up" answer for fact, until you look at her and see her hopelessly trying not to crack a smile, who WITHOUT FAIL remembers to put a line of dental floss in her purse before she goes out (and isn't afraid to use it after dinner, thankfully NOT at the table!!).  I can always count on her to know the hottest hollywood gossip, and to dance till all hours of the morning with me."

"My co-worker just told me that there was a premiere for Bridget Jones 2 last night, just blocks from my work, and we missed it!  Hugh Grant, my beloved and the framework upon which my future husband is based, was just blocks away, breathing the same oxygen, and I missed it!  If I had a friend here who was as savvy with E-news as you are, this catastrophe would never have occurred!"

Guess what I heard...

Oh my god!! This donut is so good!  - Ras about a Krispy Kreme donut

Just because I've been drinking doesn't mean I can't start shit.  - Tom B.

You know what they say, if your burps smell like shit?  You've been eating shit. - Melvin

"I want to do! But what is paintball? There is no such word in dictionary." - Suwa, Japanese teacher

"I am now skipping church to see if I am going to win my bids!!!"  "YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYA.....I won the felt tip pens!!!!!!!!  Yippeee...."who let the dogs out...arf, arf, arf, arf"...."let me hear you say Y..M..C..A"....oh yah, who's your daddy!!!" - Renee

"I was sitting in my office the other day and I suddenly got this horrible wrenching pain in my ankle.  It really felt like I got a type two sprain just from sitting there.  The strangest thing.  Too bad cause I saw that Richard Gere movie and I got some Swayzerific moves."  - I asked Tom R. if he was going to dance this weekend.

Other favorite quotes:

A gift is an offering.  A selfless act that adds something to someone's life.  Something that they need.

Have you ever walked by something and you just had this feeling that someone you knew would absolutely love it?

Faith is believing when there is no rational reason to believe.

Homer: "We Americans are England's children... I know we don't call as much as we should, or aren't as well behaved as our goody two shoes brother, Canada... who I should mention has never had a girlfriend... I'm just sayin'..."

Anything less than mad, passionate, extraordinary love is a waste of time. There are too many mediocre things in life, and love should not be one of them.

The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it.

When your heart speaks, take good notes.

Travel has a way of stretching the mind. The stretch comes not from travel's immediate rewards, the inevitable myriad new sights, smells and sounds, but with experiencing firsthand how others do differently what we believed to be the right and only way.

It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting.

Sometimes to see the light, you have to risk the dark.

Last Weekend
9/22/2004

This past Saturday, Kiran, Christa, Tom, and I took a trip to Samcheok to see the Hwanseononggul Cave, which is one of the largest caves in Asia.  I've been to a cave in Jeju-do, and although that cave had better stalactites and stalagmites, this one was much bigger.  There were huge caverns lit with yellow and green ropes of light, which took an hour and ten minutes to navigate.  It's worth a trip out to see, but the bus schedule to the caves was not the most convenient.  From the Samcheok bus terminal, the bus to the cave leaves at 6:10, 8:20, 10:20, 2:40, and 5:20.  We arrived at 11:45, waited around for an hour, until we were informed of the correct schedule.  So, instead of taking the 2000 won bus, we split the cost of a 30 minute, 24,000 won ($18.50) taxi ride. 

 
Looking back at the entrance to the cave
 
Rocks and stuff
 


A waterfall inside the cave

 

 
Tom walks down "The Valley of Desire", one of many different areas of the cave
 
A spotlight shines on an object at the back of the cave, which is supposed to be the Virgin Mary.

See the rest of the Hwanseondonggul Cave Pictures

After making a half-hearted attempt to hitchhike a ride back to Samcheok, we admitted defeat and took another 24,000 won taxi back to Samcheok.  We had to get back to Kangneung as soon as we could to meet others for dinner at 8:30.  On the ride back, Tom and I sat next to each other, talking about different things, including my website.  From visiting my site, he said it was strange that he knew details about the kind of person I am, when we really don't know each other.  Later that night, Glyn said something along the same lines.  I gave him a hug goodbye because we wouldn't be seeing each other again before he left Korea.  He then went on to say that he felt that we're better friends, than we actually are, due to the fact he regularly visits my site and reads about what I'm up to.  I think it's great, but I'm also surprised by it sometimes.  On my birthdayy, Kiran bought me a drink, handing me a Pocari Sweat.  "It's your favorite drink, isn't it?"  "Yes, how did you....?"  "I read it on your website."  "Oh."  I also write that I madly want an ipod, but nobody's given me that, yet.  To quote the great hair band of Guns N' Roses, "Need a little patience... yeah."

So, we made it back at 7:30, with not much time to relax before meeting others for dakalbi at "The Cave" restaurant.  Afterwards, we went to Absolut for a drink and to blow out Christa's birthday candles. 

   


We then headed to The Warehouse for some dancing.  Unfortunately, there are hardly any times I go there, with people already dancing.  Most of the people there wanted to dance, but the hardest part is getting people to start.  At midnight, the hip hop started playing, which gets more people up, than techno.  The party then got started.
 
Christa and Carly
 
 
Ok, they're working it... but what is Teariki doing?
 
This was the intensity of the dancing there... dance so hard, that you fall down!

The rest of Club Night pictures

I love nights like this, because there's so much happening!  Unfortunately, with all the dancing and excitement, I didn't take too many good pictures.  Once the dancing started, it was intense.  There were dance-offs left and right!  The "Circle" formed, and the members of the Clon dance school were more than willing to show off their moves.  Christa's friends Kate and Carly also go in on the excitement (see above left picture).    There was more grinding going on than at a Starbucks!  The dance floor is a perfect place to check out what's going on in the room, without staring.  Hightlights from the night inlcude:

  • "Keep an eye on Kiran.  Make sure he doesn't slip out without telling anyone."  -No problem, he hang out at the bar most of the night.
  • Dr. Dan was in full form, scanning the room for new patients.
  • I look over and see Mr. X and Ms. Y kissing.  "Oh my god, did I just see that?"  I turn away so I don't stare.  Looking back, I should have stared, to make sure that I could say under oath, that they were kissing, while his girlfriend is waiting for him at home.
  • A certain Kiwi seems to have taken a liking to the new girl from Florida.  I see them leave together.
  • One of the Toms takes a liking to a certain George Michael song that I love.
  • An encore performance of "Crouching Boxer, Hidden Hunchback".  The giddy school girls chase each other across the dance floor, hiding behind tiny, Korean men.
  • One of the staff is bouncing off the walls, after having taken codeine.

I finally leave around 4:00am, making a mental note to watch more MTV videos, so I'll be prepared for the next time I'm at a dance-off.


The next day is sunny and beautiful.  Rachael, Allison, and Chena don't want to go to the beach, because they have to get back.  I go downtown with them to McDonald's(!).  I only have a burger, no fries or drink.  They continue their shopping downtown, while I wait for Melvin and Na-kyung to pick me up, so we can go to the beach.  I'm then informed that there'll be 3 university students filming Melvin throughout the day, as part of a documentary on a foreigner.

 
Watch out, Michael Moore!

The guys go swimming: Dylan, Ras, Tom, Melvin, & Tom 
 
Na-kyung and I spend a good portion of the day "resting"
 
Ras, Melvin, Stephan, Heather, Kiran, Christa

Of course, any sunny day at the beach involves drinking, talking, swimming.  I do all, except the latter - just too cold.  Dylan got interviewed by the film crew, and made up stories about Melvin.  His best line of the day was, "My Korean name's Dylan, but you can call me Heather."  Tom loved that line so much, I wonder when the first edition of the "I love Heather" newsletter comes out.

We end the day with dinner of "ahn chun saal".  Delicious.

 

A view of the lake, as we leave the beach.  See the moon?

 

Dinner downtown


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Construction of Seaweed Forest
9/16/2004

It poured this morning, then... bue skies and warm temperatures.  This is the view from the hill that I walk up, to get to work.

On the way to work, I also came upon this sign.  The second question I asked myself (after "Where do I sign up?"), was "What would a seaweed forest look like?"


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Girl's Night
9/14/2004

This past Friday, I went downtown to make an appointment at the dentist.  One of my molars was really sensitive to cold, two weeks ago.  It had since stopped, but I figured I should get it checked, just in case.  I was expecting the office to be booked, like every dentist I've ever gone to.  I would have been happy to get an appointment the following week.  I came in and the receptionist remembered me.  Before leaving my house, I looked up the Korean word for "appointment", but didn't get a chance to use it before the staff ushered me to the back.  I was a little uncomfortable because I wasn't expecting to sit down for an evaluation, but I had no say in the matter.  Within five minutes of walking in the door, I had a bib on me, had talked to the dentist, had an x-ray, and was injected with novicane.  I had a small cavity, which she cleaned out, and told me to come back on Monday.  If there was no pain by then, I'd just need a filling.  She nonchalantly continued, that if there was pain, I would need a root canal!  Luckily, it was just a cavity that I got filled.  The first visit was only 16,000 won, and the filling was 11,000 won!  I remembered getting a cavity filled in California for $100.  There are pros and cons, because this is the same office where I had the most painful teeth cleaning of me life. 

   

On Saturday, I went to Christa's place in Yang Yang and had a girl's night.  Yolanda was supposed to come too, but she was sick, so it was just the four of us: Christa, Noreen, Megan, and myself.  There was a lot of food there.  It was a little strange at first, because I can't remember the last time I had vegetables and dip.  Noreen also made a delicious chocolate pudding cake, which we ate with ice cream.  We talked a lot and managed to put on some facial masks.  It was weird, because the mask was pre-treated, and all you had to do was put this fabric-like material on your face.  we were beautiful, as you can see.

 
The spread.  There's even dip!
 
Cake and ice cream
 
The masks.
 
Christa.  I think we can all agree she was the funniest of the mask wearers.  It didn't quite fit her face.
 
Noreen wearing a yogurt pack, and nose strip.
 
We hung up our used masks on Christa's door, along with Noreen's nose strip.  It was funny then, but looking back on it, it's a little disgusting.


  love getting mail! 

It's pretty high on my list of favorite things, along with browsing stationary stores.  This past couple of weeks, has been good, because I got unexpected mail, which is the best kind.  I received a package of candy and sweets from Jennifer in Canada, a postcard from Renee's camping trip, a postcard from Nix when she went to Koh Phangan on vacation, and today I received a package of 5 magazines from Renee!  Thank you all!


One last thing...

I was leaving my house for work today, when I noticed this in the hall, in front of my neighbor's door.  It's a huge, dusty, Mashi Maro doll.  It might be hard to tell how big it is, but look at the door knob.  I felt a little sympathy for my neighbor, even though she usually stomps up the stairs in her clickity-clack heels every night at 3 or 4 in the morning.  (I'm still trying to decipher what her "job" is.)  Anyway, I felt sorry for her, because it was obvious that some boyfriend won/bought her this monstrosity of a doll, and she couldn't throw it away because he would notice if it was gone.  And it's not like other hideous gifts that you can stow away and bring back out when the gift-giver comes over.  There's no room to hide it anywhere! 

A note to men:  Only give your girlfriend a big doll like this if 1) she's 12 years old, or 2) she's a Korean woman under the age of 30.
 
(Thank god I don't fall under those two categories)


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The Warehouse's Club Night
9/11/2004

I haven't posted for days, but have quite a bit to say... just been busy and lazy.  I'm heading to Yang Yang tonight, but wanted to do a quick post for The Warehouse's first "Club Night" - Saturday, September 18th.  Tickets are 7000 won at the door, and 5000 won advance, which also incudes a bottle of Amstel.  Doors open at 7:30pm and DJ Fusion (Ryan) will be playing House/Techno from 10-midnight, then DJ BMF (Ras) will play hip-hop until 4am.  There'll be contests and drawings for bottles of liquor.  Tables and chairs will be removed, so that people can't sit down, and pretend to be too cool to dance, while munching on their mixed fruit platter.  That's what I know about it so far... it should be fun.  I might be stepping out in the pink hair, that night.  hehehe...

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Sorak-san
9/6/2004

 Bear statue at entrance
• It was warm & overcast
• Heundeulbawi trail
• Ulsanbawi trail
• 873 meter summit
This past Saturday, I took a trip to Sorak-san, for a solo hike.  I always have the best intentions of getting up early, but it's not usually how it turns out.  Still, I was at the mountain by noon.  I looked at my calendar before I left, and saw that I hadn't worked out in 3 months!  Therefore, any long hikes would would be very painful a day or two after, when I'm sore.  I decided to do the Heundeulbawi (tottering rock) and Ulsanbawi trails, which I've done before.  It's about a 4 hour hike, which is a decent amount of time to be out.


The rest of the pictures from that day can be seen here.

 


 

 
Some girls were hiking in shoes like these

Sitting on the trail 
 

You can commemorate your hike to the top with a gold metal.

 


If a medal's too much, how about an Osama Bin Laden bandana?  I wonder how many they sell in a year.

 


View from the top

 

Is it Chip, or Dale?



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Russell's pictures
9/2/2004

I received an email from Russell yesterday, which included some new pictures he took.  I don't regularly keep in contact with Russell, but I love viewing his photos.  It inspires me to be more stylistic when snapping shots.

 Bolivian Flag flying in salt plains Church light 
 Bush supporter

 

 

Russell's got 'em by the balls

All pictures credited to Russell Hunter

As for me, I took my camera and walked to school today, taking pictures of all the red peppers drying in the sun.  It's not the most sanitary of ways to dry peppers, so I wonder what they do with it after it dries.  Do they wipe off the car exhaust dirt first, before they use it for cooking?  It's one of those unsolved mysteries that I'll probably never know, but can live with... like the question of why Janet Jackson is with Jermaine Dupris?

   
   


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Man alive! Kate's in Vienna!
8/31/2004

I got an email from Kate last night.  She's fine, and has arrived in Vienna, where she'll be for the next 6 months.

But here I am! I feel like I am walking through movie sets. There are castles everywhere and even the sidewalks and cobblestone streets seem like something out of a Hepburn movie. Yesterday I looked at a flat in the building where Beethoven died. Everything is grandiose and sparkling.  The streets are filled with beautiful men with their arms around beautiful women who are wearing perfect beautiful fashion magazine clothes that they've bought in beautiful stores.  People are sitting underneath pristine statutes or in sidewalk cafes sipping wine or expresso and smoking cigarettes in a way that looks almost sexy.

Yesterday I saw a four year old in gucci sunglasses...and not the 200 baht ones like I got on
Khao San Road I can pretty well bet.

At the end of the message, she provided her telephone number, with hope of "illiciting an immediate response".  So, within 5 minutes of her sending out an email, I called her cell phone.  She was surprised, but happy to receive the phone call.  We talked for about 15 minutes before she had to go give a mini presentation about herself to the program director, who had just come back from a trip to see the Dali Lama... no pressure!

I thought this was pretty funny...  I remember a couple years ago, when Renee decided to adopt the phrase "man alive".  She wanted to consciously use it in her every day speech.  (i.e. "I went to the bank, but man alive, was the line long!")  Other than from her, I've probably heard the phrase less than ten times in my life.   So, it reminded me of her when I read it used in a blog by a reporter covering the Republican National Convention.  [Unconventional]

In addition to beer, leather couches and billiards, the "Loft" offers haircuts, manicures, massages, makeovers, waxing and mini-facials for the press all week. And, man alive, if you thought journalists loved cheesecake, just wait until you offer to wax their upper lips for free!


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Chuncheon
8/30/2004

This past weekend, I was in Chuncheon - famous for dakalbi and makguksu.  My trip started out early - 6am to be exact.  I was supposed to meet Kiran and Christa at the bus terminal, but they arrived a little late and we missed the bus by 5 minutes.  The next one was an hour away, so we sat and talked to Stephen, who was there to take an early bus to Donghae to see the caves.  We were to meet Glyn and his girlfriend Rafael in Chuncheon.

View of Kangneung's river at 5:45 am.
Our guidebooks said that the bus ride to Chuncheon would be 3 1/2 hours, maybe even 4 hours.  Therefore it was a shock to us that we made one rest stop and were told by the bus driver that we had arrived, after only travelling for 2 hours, 40 minutes.  We got off the bus, but were a little skeptical because the ride was so short.

We looked at a map and went on our way to find the Information building.  We got a little lost and found an information booth, but it was pretty far from where we had intended to go.  While trying to find out what to do in Chuncheon, we ran into some Frenchmen, who said they were travelling around Korea for a month.  It's rare you find foreigners that come to Korea for the sake of only visitng Korea.  With a little more probing, we found out they were actually here for a brother's wedding, and took the opportunity to also travel.

As we walked towards downtown, a military helicopter passed overheard, and Kiran practically dove for the ground.  If Christa and I weren't there to reassure him that it was only there because of the local U.S. military base (Camp Page), he probably would have curled up into a fetal position and called out for his mommy.  :-)

After finding a yeogwan, we put our stuff away, had lunch, and met up with Glyn and Rafael downtown.  We decided to make a trip to the little lake island of Jungdo.  After taking the 5 minute ferry ride over, Kiran, Christa, and I rented bikes for 3000 won/hour.  Glyn and Rafael decided to have lunch and walk around for the next hour while the three of us rode around.  I hadn't been on a bike in so long.  I'm not an avid bike rider, only for the fact that I hadn't owned one after the 5th grade.  When choosing a bike to rent, my only criteria were that it be pretty and have a basket.  I love baskets!
 
They aren't this bad... I made them hold hand.  It was a re-enactment of something I've actually seen. 
 Christa, Rafael, Glyn  Chuncheon scenery
It was really fun riding around the little island.  We leisurely rode around, while Kiran and Christa honked at everyone within a 50 foot radius, while I rang my dainty little bell.  Along the way, we stopped to look at a Korean war monument, and some caged rabbits.  Kiran fed the rabbits a red pepper, and was utterly delighted to find out that they didn't die, and actually like it.
   The opening line from the monument

The first line of the Korean War monument said:

From ancient times, Japan, the country across the sea, has invaded our country repeatedly whenever they had the chance.
The day was still young, so we decided to go to Gangchon-ri, an area that the man from Information booth, said had "too many young people."  If that statement alone doesn't make you want to go there, there is Gugok Waterfall nearby.  Rafael wasn't feeling too good, so she and Glyn decided not to come with us. 

We took a taxi to the base of the waterfall, and walked 15 minutes to the actual falls itself.  Along the way, there was an area with tons of rocks stacked on top of each other.  It was the biggest collection I've seen in Korea.  I'm sure there's a Korean name for this, but I don't know what it is.


The waterfall itself was really nice, even if it wasn't too big.  There were a lot of people there, as well as photographers who would capture your picture for 5000 won.  We took pointers from a photographer taking a woman's, and made our own poses. 

 

This is where I do my best thinking - under a waterall.


Is it me, or could this picture be in a gay calendar?


"Bring It On!" - practicing our cheerleading pyramid so we can be on ESPN 2. 


After pictures at the waterfall, the three of us started walking down the mountain that would take us back to the area where there are "too many young people".  There are a lot of bars and restaurants in the area because they get a lot of university students who participate in MTs (membership training).  The training is just a weekend retreat for university students to bond and get really drunk together.

 

There's quite a few people in the late afternoon, but more were starting to come as the sun started to set.

 

Each person is holding a case of beer, that will be consumed that night.

The three of us go and get a drink and wait for the local bus to take us back downtown, where we're supposed to meet up with Glyn.   Before dinner, we decide to have a drink at Family Mart.  We walk around most of the dakalbi street/Myeong-dong/downtown area and can't find a single convenience store.  After about 20 minutes of searching, we finally found one in a relatively obscure area.  They didn't have any alcoholic beverages that I wanted, so instead, I bought a bottle of "Confidence."  Glyn then met us for dakalbi, minus Rafael, because she was sick.
   

I don't think Chuncheon dakalbi tastes "that much" better than other places I tried, but the spices were good and the duk was fresh and soft.  The dakalbi restaurant near Kwangdong University in Kangneung, is just as good, plus they have the seaweed soup I like, and free ice cream.  We stuffed ourselves, then made plans to go to the Kangwon University area for drinks.  Glyn had to go back to Rafael, who was at their hotel.  So the three of us went looking for a bar I heard about on Dave's ESL - Hard Rock.  The cartoon map we had didn't make the University area look too far from where we were, so we were going to walk it.  As we started our trek, we asked a Korean man on the street if we were going the right way.  He told us that the University was really far away, and that he'd give us a ride.  Far?  I think a Korean' s perspective of far is different from a Westerner's, but we decided to accept his offer.  It turns out, the University was  prety far away, and would have taken us a good 45 minutes to get there.  As he drops us off, we gratefully thank him, and make our way to Hard Rock.  The story's quite long already, but this is where it gets interesting. 

Buy The Way

We found out that the bar is only around the corner from where we were, so I suggested sitting down at the convenience store, "Buy The Way" and have some drinks first.  We all bought an alcoholic drink of some kind - drinking and relaxing as we people watched.  15 minutes into it, a guy at the next table gets up quickly to run over to his friend across the street.  I noticed that he drops his camera case and I scurry across the street to give it back to him.  He looks really grateful as I hand it back to him.  Later, he buys us 3 cans of Welches for the good deed.

We continue to drink and see a lot of commotion right in front of our table.  Some university guy is trying to run away as a lot of people are running after him, trying to cover him with flour (aka: antiquing).  We figure it's just his birthday and his friends are trying to have some fun with him.  We see him trying to run away, as he's now covered in flour and water.  The whole scene wasn't too much of a concern, until we see 5 or 6 guys surrounding him and kicking and stomping on him while he's on the ground trying to shield himself.  He makes his way up and starts running again as more people chase him and throw raw eggs at him!  At this point, I start to get concerned because I'm thinking, "Why would your friends do that to you?  Physically hurt you?  Maybe they're not his frineds"  Then I start thinking that maybe it's not his birthday, and a group of guys are just trying to beat him up.  The group passes by our table again, and Christa and I get up this time, following the crowd to see what's going on - with cameras in hand.  I only got one photo of the guy on the ground being kicked, because after seeing it up close, it felt wrong to take pictures of someone being hurt.  I started getting angry at the guys kicking this poor guy, but stayed back, because I didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get hurt myself.  Christa had also snapped some photos, and I remember somebody from the crowd, saying something about "waygooks" taking pictures.  I think that's the reason why they stopped. 

 

The scene of the flouring

 

Early on, spirits are still high

Once they did stop, we went back to our table to tell Kiran what we saw.  We hadn't sat down long before 3 of the guys from the crowd came over to our table and told me that he wanted me to delete my pictures.  I was surprised and didn't know what was going on, so I instinctly grabbed my bag from the table and put it in my lap.  They tried to tell us that it was their friend's birthday, and it was Korean culture, and that they were having fun.  (I understand the Korean birthday culture, but in 3 years, I had never seen anyone pelted with eggs and kicked by their "friends" as they were cowering to block the blows.) 

 
Being kicked...
 
and pelted with eggs.


"I understand it's your friend's birthday, but why do you have to hurt him?" 
-----> You don't understand.  You must erase pictures.
"No."
-----> Don't upload on internet
"Why?"
-----> Japan image up. (making a thumbs up gesture).  And Korea image down.  (thumbs down gesture)
 Now we get to the reason why this is such a big deal.
"Why does it matter?  It's the truth.  You can go to the U.S. and take pictures of anything bad and put it on the internet.  If it's true, it's ok."
--- No, no!  Korea image down!

We continue to argue some more, and it's obvious they're not going to let up, so I lie to them.  I go from adamantly refusing to delete my picture, to saying "Ok, I won't post them on the internet."  It seems to make them feel that they've done good for their country.  One of the guys even made me pinky swear, and make a copy of it (by sliding our hand across each others).  After some mandatory comments about how bad Bush is, and how bad the war in Iraq is, they finally leave our table. 

How naive can people be???  When did the protocol start, that said a pinky swear, really means you're going to do what you promised.  When world leaders start making deals with pinky swears, that's when I'll start taking it seriously.  Even when I was witnessing the event, I didn't have an agenda to deflame Korea or its people.  Plus, they didn't understand the scale I'm working on.  CNN wouldn't hire me to take lunch orders, let alone do an expose on Korean birthdayy rituals!  In many ways, I think Korea is great, but I didn't like the way this particular group of students were treating their friend.  Still, that doesn't mean I don't have a right to report what I see.  Later, the birthday boy came back with his friends to show us there were no hard feelings, and that he was ok.

 Birthday boy in the middle

"Peace"  I'm ok.

 

I thought it was funny that the "birthday entourage" carried fake guns around that night.

I'm glad he was ok, and the group finally left our area.  We were still left with the 3 cans of Welches, so we buy some soju to mix with it.  We have a lot of fun drinking and making new friends in front of our table.  We even played a game in which Christa lost twice and had to accost strangers and dance in front of them.  There were a lot of people about, including soldiers.  We had a good time hanging out there, and longed for a good university scene in Kangneung.  Finally we decided we were starting to get too drunk, and need to go to the bar we had talked about earlier.

 Who wants to dance with me?
Who's the next dance victim?

 
Guys at the next table reading love notes.  The guy in the hat is reading a note shaped like a heart.

We arrive at Hard Rock and Kiran accidently orders beers for all of us.  Christa was too drunk to drink anymore, and I can't stand beer.  We left after 10 mintues and headed to Johnny's Bar (if I can recall).  Christa and I order coctails this time, and just rested in the seats.  My eagle eye spotted the Frenchmen we ran into earlier that day, so we ask them to join us.  Kiran was enjoying speaking French, as Christa and I started to get really drunk and tired.  It was the most drunk I had been this year, without throwing up.  We call it a night. 
 Kiran points out the drunk girl

Hard Rock

 

Johnny's Bar


The next day, we slept in, had lunch, watched Hell Boy, and took the bus back home.  Overall, a nice trip - quite memorable.


Posted at: 11:51:52 pm
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Laos in the news
8/29/2004

With Laos being such a small country, it's not often there are stories about it in large news sites like MSNBC.  Therefore, it was interesting to read this article about Luang Prabang, declared by UNESCO as “the best preserved city of Southeast Asia”.  The city is dealing with the eternal problem of whether to preserve the old ways, or embrace change.  [MSNBC]

 
Linda Ehrichs / AP

  • "Communism kept Laos in a timewarp for three decades. It also helped preserve the country's culture, its buildings, cuisine and rare freshwater dolphins."  [Teipei Times]
  • Rugby is now a national sport in Laos.  [TVNZ]
  • Like Thailand, penalties for drug crimes are stiff.  This guy got a death sentence.  [abc.net.au]
  • This article about Hmong people immigrating to the U.S. is similar to what I went through 25 years ago.  "Only 50 per cent of the camp's population can read or write Hmong, let alone English. They have lived in a mild tropical climate all their lives but many will be heading to St Paul, Minnesota, where winter temperatures can plunge to 20 degrees below zero."  I remember I got hives the during the first winter I spent in Oregon.  I still remember it being the coldest I had ever been in my life.  "'They ask if it is true that wives can leave their husbands and that no one in America respects their parents."  "Nor do all the 15,000 refugees in the camp want to go to America - although they have little choice."  I think it's a misconception that all refugees embrace moving to the U.S.  I know my grandmother didn't want to move to the States.  Ideally, she'd still like to go back, but can't.  But I do know that when she passes away, she'll go back home and be buried with my grandfather in Laos.  "Eight-year-old Konghong has never travelled farther than the school a mile or so outside the barbed-wire boundaries of the camp. 'I want to go to America. I want to study. It is a good life there and Americans are good people,' he said."  [Observer]

Posted at: 11:45:07 pm
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Super Size Me! or not
8/27/2004

When I got home tonight, I was up in the air about going downtown to Absolut's official opening.  I wasn't tired, but I have to be at the bus station at 6am tomorrow to catch a bus to Chuncheon.  Dukcalbi, here I come!!! 

Instead, I decided to watch a movie Ras had given me a copy of - Super Size Me.  I'm sure most people have heard about it.  It's a documentary about a guy that eats nothing but McDonald's for 30 straight days - 3 meals a day.  He couldn't eat anything outside of McDonald's.  Bottled water also had to be bought there.  He gained 10 pounds in the first week, and 24.5 pounds by the end of the month.  After the experiment, it took him 5 months to lose twenty pounds.

It was really eye-opening, and made me motivated to work out.  Even before coming to Korea, I never understood how people could eat and drink so much in one sitting.  It would be torture for me to try and finish a Big Gulp.  I don't eat fast food often - maybe once a month, and when I do I can't finish a full meal set.  Actually, I never could.  An appropriate sized meal for me is a Happy Meal, or a regular burger, small fries, and usually a small drink, or none at all.

Some of my favorites quotes from the movie:
  • "Patient is going on 1 month McDonald's binge." Doctor writes this in his notes.
  • A 7-11 Double Gulp is half a gallon, with 48 teaspoons of sugar!
  • "Oh shit!  Look at that.  Look how big that french fry is!  That thing is like 4 feet tall."
  • "Now is the part of the meal where you start getting the McStomachache."

Posted at: 11:01:35 pm
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